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Friends by Robin Dunbar

Friends: Understanding the Power of our Most Important Relationships

Robin Dunbar

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Category: Psychology, Non-fiction
Imprint: Little, Brown
Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group
Publication date: 4 Mar 2021
ISBN: 9781408711736

Essential reading for us all - a fascinating and comprehensive exploration of friendship in all its forms, from a world-leading expert.

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4 stars out of 5
Rachel Cooke
21 Feb 2021

"The psychologist’s fascinating study of friendship finds that the quality of our relationships determines our health, happiness and chance of a long life"

Where a book like this can’t go is deep inside friendship: its particular intensity; its singular ease, but also its intricacy; the way it can wax and wane. The territory of novels and movies. But it will make you think about your own friendships, and perhaps it will cause you to worry, too, about those who seem (how?) to do without pals. I don’t believe that childless people like me are necessarily better at friendship: of my five closest female friends, two are mothers; my closest male friend is a father. But we all know couples who have sorely neglected their friendships, and we detect a certain sadness rising from them like toxic gas. Life is long. No one person can give you everything.